Constipation in Children

Constipation is a fairly common problem in children. In roughly every 100 children encountered in a given population about 30 are likely to have some issues relating to constipation. It causes not insignificant amount of worry to parents.

Constipation can either be defined in time frames – the acceptable norm is to have at least 3 bowel movements a week; and the other definition, which is also more applicable medically, is the consistency of the stool and the discomfort it causes to the child whilst passing it.

So a hard and difficult to pass stool is more likely to fit the bill of constipation rather than how frequently it is passed.

The good news is that even with this high rate of occurrence, it is rarely related to a serious medical cause – over 90% cases are related to diet and behavioral issues.

Diet – A diet that is lacking in fluids or fiber is more likely to cause constipation but it must be said that the studies done so far have only shown a weak link with this. What it means is that its important to review the amount of these in child’s diet but just focusing on increasing the water consumed is unlikely to resolve the problem fully.

Milk – too much of a good thing can be bad applies to this case well. Children that have diet rich in milk tend to suffer more constipation. It is linked with high milk consumers also being fussy eaters and hence consuming less fiber.

Behavior – children can develop the behavior of avoidance quite quickly. If the child has experienced difficulty passing stools on occasions then child can learn to associate passing poo with pain. So they tend to hold it back until they can. These are the children that run away and hide under the tables or in the corners when they need to poop! Once they have done it long enough the amount of poo in the end part of the gut, called rectum, increases in size and becomes increasingly hard to pass. This creates an ongoing cycle of hard poo –> child holding back –>stool getting harder and larger –> more painful to pass –> child holding back even more. In some advanced cases it may even lead to leakage of small parts of soft stool in the child’s undies without them being aware of it.

The things that can help parents is intervening with diet where possible, reduce milk and help the child when they observe the behavior of avoidance of passing stool in the child. Some strategies are to teaching the child to have regular times to sit on the toilet seat with a foot stool – recommendations is for about 4-5 minutes at a time and about 3 times a day, reward charts and stickers, if child noted to be displaying  stool holding behavior (crossing legs, straining and simultaneously running to hide etc) then encourage them to sit on the toilet.

It is safe and in fact encouraged to use laxatives to help the children to transition from a phase of constipation to passing a soft, easy to pass bowel movement. Your GP can help in the matter of guidance of which and how  much laxative to use.

Although laxatives are not the long term solution but sometimes you have to use laxatives for months, occasionally even years, before full treatment is achieved.


We are constantly adjusting. As we move through different phases of our life, we experience diversity of changes – in our bodies, our ways of thinking, our social role and our relationship to our environment. Each such change is accompanied with adjustment.

Some instances of adjustment that we witness on daily basis are: transition from infancy to childhood (when we witness and experience this adjustment from the other side of the fence as a parent we often term it as ‘terrible twos’),  childhood to adolescence (this adjustment is well known and accepted in our society as ‘typical teenage behavior’), from teenage to young adulthood when we adjust to our changed role in the society, new work related roles and responsibilities, financial independence related challenges etc. New relationships and parenthood can be one of the most significant of these adjustments. Some adjustments can be at a much smaller but more personal level eg adjusting to a change in routine or adjusting to something someone has said etc.

Adjustment can be easy and smooth in some instances and bit difficult to understand and undergo at others.

When this adjustment is difficult to understand or comprehend it can potentially create a sense of dissatisfaction and disharmony in our internal environment. This can then manifest in symptoms of low mood, irritability, lack of motivation or concentration, sleep problems, apathy towards self with neglect of such simple basic activities as eating a balanced and healthy diet, exercising, relaxation – the core three elements of maintaining good health.

There is always a risk of medicalising this adjustment disorder as depression or anxiety and turning towards medications to help the symptoms. But as you can perhaps see that all that is needed to restore health and well-being in these situations is adjusting. Adjusting can be achieved by recognition of what the problem is (self awareness), what are the steps you can take to solve this problem (critical analysis) and how are you going to implement these steps(cognitive and behavioral therapy).

It may seem complicated at first but what you have to remember is that you are already an expert at adjusting – haven’t you already navigated your way through the adjustment from infancy to the stage where you are reading this blog? We mostly do great things without knowing we are doing them. The key in adjusting is gaining the awareness. That’s all.


Health and wellness

I feel strongly about this issue so I thought I’ll start this platform to share my thoughts, insights and ideas about understanding and taking steps towards achieving and retaining it. Everyone has a fundamental right and need to feel healthy and well. But let’s start the conversation with defining what is health? Health is not only a feeling of wellness relating to the body but also to the mind and to your environment. Your environment is your family, work, social circle that you move in, society that you mingle with and larger political aspects that have direct or indirect impact on you. So there has to be a harmony in all these elements for you to feel happy. This will probably explain why so many of us nowadays feel stressed and struggle to find the state of happiness. This then has an impact on our mental health and state of well being. It’s not uncommon for this to then present with non specific tiredness, aches and pains, unexplained weight gain, difficulty sleeping etc. It’s very common for people to present with problems like to their doctor who then runs battery of tests diligently and finds nothing wrong! In these cases the body is merely displaying symptoms of disharmony with the mental state or the environment and the answers do not lie in running scientific tests but in taking time to recognise these triggers and working out individual strategies to address these.

First blog post

Health is my passion. And this is a medium for me to connect to you to share some thoughts, tips and insights about staying healthy and well. Disease and illness is an integral part of health as minimising it’s impact on you is essential to attain and maintain health. To eliminate or defeat something you have to know and understand it well so I will try to demystify some common illnesses and ailments as we go along… welcome to the journey to finding the healthier you!